Courage is something we all need. We need courage to start something new. We need courage to admit when we’re wrong. We need courage to stand up to others when we feel we have been unfairly dealt with. We all know the feeling of being supremely confident; maybe it was playing a video game or in taking a test but it is a power that makes us feel we can do anything. I love that feeling.
Unfortunately we also have fear. Fear that things won’t go as planned, fear that we could lose what we have, even fear that others won’t like us. Fear and courage are opposites. One empowers us, the other limits us. Over and over in my life I have been afraid, but no more. I have decided to be in control of my life and the decisions I make. It has been a long journey but thanks to devoting part of each day to self-improvement I feel stronger, more confident, courageous, and happier than ever before.
Turning on the news each evening and hearing about lay-offs, salary reductions and bankruptcies can be tough as we can’t help but wonder what will happen to us. However I am starting to understand “the secret” and have started to focus on all the good in my life. My wife, my child, my students, my mentor, the Smith’s staff, and, of course, my friends. Gratitude and appreciation for things that we have are two of the keys that truly give us access to a great life. For those of you that are interested I highly recommend reading “The Secret“as it’s a relatively easy book. Keep an open mind and soon you’ll find yourself with courage you never knew you had.
Adrian
Carol says
Great Article, Adrian.
Yuichi and I are also planning to read “The Secret” and watch the DVD. Now I am currently reading a similar book and we plan to read the secret in March. (our march STAG)…
My optimism has always been commented on by family, coworkers, friends and former bosses, but reading the book, I am reminded that every single day we should look for happiness and actively be greatful for what we have. We all have so much to be greatful for here at Smith’s!
I have believed in the power of positive thinking for a long time and seen what can be achieved with positive thinking. It’s actually what brought me to Japan in the first place!!!
Thank you for your article! Looking even more forward to reading and watch “The Secret”
Carol
Al Bartle says
Adrian,
I am going to check out that book. We do need to be thankful for what we have and build on that to make our lives more successful. Having a network of family, friends, associates in our work and students who need our help keeps us positive and that is what it is all about, right?
Keep up the good work!
les says
Hi Adrian,
I have the video “The Secret”; I am sure it is somewhat different but similar in spirit to the book. I find it a great motivator. I cnnot say about the book but the movie, I think could emphasize ‘take action’ a bit more. that has given me great courage. Great post!